Learning isn't always fun, and I'll be the first to admit it. Sometimes we find an intriguing documentary on Netflix to get sucked into for days, and other times we're forced to learn a valuable life lesson at the mercy of our inner peace. In both instances, we are learning, and the structures within our minds have changed a little bit. Our attitude and perspective will determine greatly how the information in front of us is absorbed. We can be stubborn and identify certain instances or information as boring or uncomfortable, or we can choose to find some meaning or opportunity in almost everything we encounter each day.
I like to remind myself that I have something to gain or learn from the people I encounter, the nonsensical shows I see on TV, and the negative thoughts that pass through my mind about myself and others, and every one of us has those thoughts from time to time. It's all about perspective. We should be looking outside and inside the box, 20 feet away from the box and up the tree next to where the box is sitting. Life gives us clues and options on how to solve our problems and make our lives more manageable. Most of us know this information to be accurate but often forget or don't have an encouraging ear to remind or support them along their journey. I've started this newsletter because somebody close to me has encouraged me to share my perspective, and it's nice to hear another's perspective. It's also necessary to share so you may grow as an individual.
Life is so uncomfortable sometimes, and there is a lot of pain as well. Being uncomfortable is one of the most incredible opportunities to grow and prosper as an individual, especially if you are trying to learn something new. I'm not saying this to try and be positive. Being uncomfortable is one of the leading indicators that you need to do some personal work. Learning new ideas can be painful. Understanding different people's thoughts, beliefs, and emotions are probably one of the most challenging things. Empathy is a rough one for most. It's possible, though.
Understanding a subject that is entirely out of your specialized area is also tricky but tangible. One thing I struggle with is observing conflicting viewpoints on specific topics. Some say I contradict myself, but I believe the exact opposite. Understanding conflicting views can be a natural or practiced strength, and it can be a burden and a blessing all at once. One thing that's for sure is that it's necessary to succeed in almost any area of life. You don't need to agree with both sides to a conflicting idea; you only need to understand the different aspects. Try to see the picture as a whole.
To me, it's essential to gain access to the whole picture. The secrets of health, lasting relationships, success, and happiness are unlocked a little more each time you expand your horizon. These things have a different meaning to everyone, and in each environment, we will all have a different picture. If I lived in Antarctica, my idea of success and health would be much different than where I live now. Success might mean harvesting a seal for dinner and using its coat for warmth if I were in Antarctica. What most Americans need is a wake-up call. Too much left this, right that, white or black, this or that. Honestly, my business brain is relieved that most people don't look at the grey areas as closely—more opportunities for those who DO look. My heart and logical side of mind feel otherwise. The collective success of a society is equally as important as personal success, and that I can say with confidence because if society can't succeed, neither will I.
About the author:
My name is Erica, and I'm a small business owner, a mother, a wife, a psychology major, and a recovering addict. I hope you enjoyed reading this newsletter, and I look forward to sharing more content with you soon.
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Very good letter